Do you struggle to come up with ideas to help your wife relax, unwind, and take the break she truly deserves and needs?
In this episode of Dadpreneurs Rising, Carl Taylor shares a powerful strategy for creating incredible experiences for your partner that will leave her feeling loved, supported, and deeply appreciated.
Drawing inspiration from a previous episode where a King’s Court member sought ways to reconnect with his wife, Carl emphasises the importance of taking the lead and planning a surprise getaway that caters to your partner’s unique needs and interests.
Carl emphasises that this gesture is not just about the specific activity or destination — it’s about making your partner feel valued, supported, and understood.
By taking the lead and handling all the logistics, you demonstrate your thoughtfulness and commitment to her well-being by creating an unforgettable experience that will strengthen your connection and deepen the love and attraction in your relationship.
IN THIS EPISODE, YOU’LL DISCOVER…
- The inspiration for today’s episode (00:24)
- How to create the perfect getaway for your partner (01:09)
- How this perfect getaway will benefit your relationship (02:58)
- A tip for an even better experience (04:00)
QUOTES
- “What can you do for your woman to really, really leave her with a big smile and a lot of love and attraction for you?” – Carl Taylor
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TRANSCRIPTION
Here’s how to create an absolutely incredible experience for your woman that will leave her just gobsmacked.
Hey, I’m Carl Taylor, I am the host here at Dadpreneurs Rising.
And this is the podcast for you if you’re a dad in business, trying to balance being a dad and entrepreneur, a lover, and a man in today’s world.
Today I want to talk about creating an incredible experience for your woman. And this is inspired by, if you listen to a previous episode, where we were talking about one of our members who was struggling in his relationship, just wanted his wife back.
One of the things we talked about, and I thought it warranted a whole separate episode for us to discuss, is he wanted to create an experience, he realised that his woman was feeling overwhelmed, she needed a break.
She just had so much weighing on her and he wanted to provide a break for her. One of the key things from her was that she was feeling overwhelmed, decision fatigue, and he’s like, I want to maybe organise a getaway for her. And I said, perfect. Create a getaway.
But here’s how you do it. Don’t go and say hey, do you want to get away? Don’t go, hey, where do you want to go? Hey, don’t go, don’t basically, don’t go to her with more problems and more options. Don’t give her more overwhelm.
If she’s already overwhelmed, here’s how you make an incredible gift. And whether you’re dating, whether you are in a long term relationship, I guarantee you if you do this right, this will work.
Firstly, you need to know your woman to have an idea of what she likes, so you can create a good experience. But you take the lead on this. This is not a hey, I’d like to do this and just pay for it. It’s like no, no, here’s what I’ve done for you. You end up going to when you go Hey babe, I can see how overwhelmed you are.
So here’s what’s happening. I want you to pack. Because on Saturday, you’re getting in a car, and it’s gonna take you somewhere, I’ve organised a whole getaway, you’re gonna have this whole experience, you’re gonna have the night away, or whether this getaway is a night away a weekend away, or whether the getaway is just hey, I’m gonna organise a massage. It doesn’t matter. Like if you’re on a budget and you want to make it a massage, you can say, Hey, by Saturday 1pm, I want you ready, out the door, here’s a packing list. Or here’s what you need to know to be ready. A car is going to pick you up and it’s going to take you somewhere, and it’s going to give you a chance to just relax and unwind. I’ve taken care of everything, I’ve got the kids or we’ve got a sitter or the grandparents are coming like whatever the logistics need to be. You take care of all of it. You think about what they’re all going to be, all her objections and why she can’t go away at that time, why she can’t do that thing. And you go, I’ve sorted it. I’ve got the sitters or I’ve got the grandparents here. I’ve got the kids, I’ve taken care of this, we’re going to get them to their swimming class, we’re going to do like, I’ve got it all sorted. So you need to be, cross all the things that she’s going to then think, well, what about this? What about that? You need to have already handled them. So when it comes out of her mouth, you say it’s taken care of. This is how you create the incredible experience that will build an incredible amount of attraction in that moment. She will find you extremely sexy.
And secondly, it will be the gift that is just impactful on so many levels to your relationship and for her as a woman to know she’s supported, that she’s held. You’ve got her. So the woman in your life, if she’s overwhelmed right now, and maybe she’s not, you don’t have to wait for her to be overwhelmed. But do it that way. Pick a thing, whatever it is, maybe it’s a night away. Maybe it’s just a massage. Maybe it’s a catch up with friends, right? You could organise logistics with the friend and have them meet her at a bar or do something maybe and then a girl’s nights for a long period of time. You figure it out, what’s going to really make her heart sing. And then you take care of everything, all the logistics, think at all through, plan at all. Do not tell her and you’re not seeking her approval. Because then when it comes time, you’re just gonna go Hey, babe, this is what’s happening. Now you can try and keep it a mystery. That will add a lot of allure if you can keep it a mystery and be like, Hey, your car’s coming. You don’t know where you’re going. Just pack these things, do these things. However, sometimes, you know, depending on your woman, her anxiety levels vary, you might need to tell her. If you can get away with not telling her I recommend it. If you have to tell her. Don’t tell her what’s happening. Right? Don’t make it a secret. Don’t send her off into an anxious spin like cool, this is what’s happening. I’ve organised your massage but it’s booked. It’s paid for, you don’t have to do anything. The whatever. Like if it’s a getaway book, I booked your getaway. It’s one of your favourite places. You’re gonna love it. You got some friends gonna be there and whoever’s picking you up or you know, your friend so and so is gonna pick you up at 7am on Saturday, and off you go, make sure you pack your bathers and swimmers because it’s going to be hot. Like that’s the experience that will wow your woman and really leave a lasting experience.
So I’m going to leave it there, but this week, this month, what can you do for your woman to really, really leave her with a big smile and a lot of love and attraction for you? Till next time keep up the journey.